Tell her you love her everyday. No matter how angry you may be at each other.
Step2
Courtesy is key. Be courteous and always remember to respect her. Do that and you can expect the same.
Step3
Surprise Her. You can tell when she is having a hard time or feeling low. When you see it, surprise her with some way for her to take care of herself and recharge.
Step4
Take the kids. If you have children, take the kids by yourself for a whole day. This allows her to do whatever she wants, and regain her sanity.
Step5
Consultation rules. Consult with her on all major decisions. Coming home with a brand new car for the family that she wasn’t privy to is a bad idea.
Step6
Love her unconditionally. That is really what it boils down to.