Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Things You’ll Need:
Step1
Create a Birth Plan, in which you express your desires for the birth of your baby, and what you expect from the birth attendant(s). Make sure you are being realistic! While not everything will go according to your plan, it will serve as a guide for everyone involved, and will increase your chances of having just the kind of birth you are hoping for.
Step2
Educate yourself about labor and delivery. You and your husband (or whoever your "coach" will be) should be familiar with the process of birth, and confident in the ability of your body to give birth naturally. Fear is your worst enemy when you are having a baby, and the more you know, the less fear you will have. Also, the more your coach knows, the more he will be able to help you and/or speak for you as needed.
Step3
Find a birth attendant (doctor or midwife) who has lots of experience with non-interventive ("natural") births. Midwives and doulas specialize in natural births, and many are willing to assist you in the home, clinic, or hospital setting. It is important that you interview a few, and that you find someone with whom you are comfortable.
Step4
Consider carefully where you plan to deliver your baby. If you prefer a hospital, tour their facilities, and ask what their rate of C-sections is. If it is unacceptable to you, then look up some birth centers. Of course, 100% of all C-sections are performed in hospitals. (Is that too obvious?)
Step5
When you go into labor:
Call your doctor/midwife, but stay home as long as you can, going about your business until the labor will not be ignored. Stay active, take a walk; this keeps labor from slowing down. Your coach and birth attendant can help you by being positive about your labor's progress, and you can be confident that your body was made to give birth naturally!
Comments
hummingbird said
on 1/2/2008 I rated you five supermama! sincerely Hummingbird!
danielzrib said
on 12/22/2007 This article was not written for the few who have a medical need for a C-section, but for the many for whom it is not medically necessary (see introduction).
hummingbird said
on 1/1/2008 Dibs on adding the warning Danielzrib! perfectly worded and sound advice as is your article! sincerely, Hummingbird:)
hummingbird said
on 12/22/2007 Thanks! Still it's best to have a tip or warning as most who read these articles take them as serious as true, researched, unbiased trusted, medical advice... so as to not be so one-sided that there be balance! Well kudos to being a stay at home mom! my mom worked nights and stayed with us almost every day and then homeschooled us through our highschool years and it took lots of work i can't imagine with six kids! congratulations! Take care. Bye. Hummingbird!
hummingbird said
on 12/22/2007 Also, the advice to stay home longer could actually harm mother and baby if there is an unknown/recognized problem developing. I think you advice is great but that maybe there should be a tip or warning added that though they should be firm about having a natural birth, always follow doctors advice as the outcome we all hope for is a healthy baby! thanks:) Hummingbird