How to Know When to Tell Your Partner NO MORE!

This can be really tough because you love or care for this person, but if you let him/her ruin you, then what good will come of it, NONE, just harm to you and those who love you.

Instructions

Difficulty: Challenging

Things You’ll Need:

• Your own mind and feelings.
• To know what's right or wrong.
• To know that you deserve better than this.

1. A controling partner. I think that first you really should read an article that TheHairDresser wrote at, http://www.ehow.com/how_2059028_identify-controlling-mate.html
   This is a sad article, but helpful with a lot of great information.
2. Everythings good. When you met your partner, everything was perfect. You just know that you love him/her and everything is going to be perfect for the rest of your life.
3. What did I do? Then one day, for what feels like no reason at all, things aren't the same anymore and something is wrong. You ask yourself, what did I do? I didn't do anything to deserve how he/she is treating me.
4. Financial problems. It probably isn't something you did, it could be many things, like financial problems, problems at work, problems with family or friends, etc... Financial problems are usually the culprit.
5. Arguing and saying mean things. You try talking with your partner and it just turns into an argument, mean things are said and the next thing you hear is it's your fault. Now you're feeling guilty even though you know it's not your fault.
6. Too worried to sleep. Your partner storms out and doesn't return home until the next day, in the mean time you're feeling bad, you're worrying because he/she might be hurt and you can't sleep. You're torturing yourself for something that isn't your fault. You do not deserve this, that should be your first sign.
7. Partner storms out again. Your partner comes home the next day mad at the world, ordering you around, screaming and yelling at you, won't talk about whatever the problem is then storms out again. You do not deserve this, this should be your second sign.
8. Abuse is never acceptable. Now your partner is in your face, yelling, shoving and maybe even hit you, that's definitely not cool. This is the third and last time. Now is the time to say NO MORE! Abuse is abuse, physical or mental, and is not acceptable.
9. You deserve to be happy. When the abuse gets to the point of someone getting mentally or physically hurt it's time to leave, if possible leave before it gets this far if it's obvious that things aren't getting worked out. The most important thing of all is to always know that you are worth more than this and you did not deserve this. This is your life too, and deserve to be happy, always. Life is already too short.

Tips & Warnings

• Always let at least one friend or family member know when things are getting this bad.
• Try to always have a phone/cell phone on you when things are getting to serious.
• Try to avoid being cornered to were you can't get away if you need too.
• Try to just walk away if things get too heated.