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Step 1
Choose your words carefully and think before you speak. Is what you're saying necessary or just idle chatter? Is it gossip? Always consider what effect your words will have on other's feelings.
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Step 2
Don't argue. Arguing wastes energy and creates bad feelings. Everyone has their own beliefs, opinions and views. Avoid trying to convince someone of your point of view.
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Step 3
Don't exaggerate. Only say what is true and necessary.
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Step 4
Watch the company you keep. Do your friends curse, gossip, complain and talk non-stop? Are those you associate with a source of inspiration or are they a drain on your energy? Do they drag you deeper into worldly life or are they also on the spiritual path?









