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Step 1
Make sure that this is the kind of thing that your guy would like. The assumption is that all guys are adventurous in the bedroom but it might scare him coming from you. Drop some hints or test the waters before you actually get dirty, just to see how he reacts.
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Step 2
A good way to see how your man would react is to use dirty talk as foreplay. While kissing or heavy petting, tell him what sort of things you would like to do to him, or for him to do to you.
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Step 3
Start small. Use phrases that express what you are feeling but also don’t make you feel uncomfortable. Try telling him how much you enjoy what he is doing but don’t be afraid to get a bit graphic.
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Step 4
Use all those words a lady should never say in mixed company. If he seems to enjoy your new bedroom vernacular, try getting a little dirtier. Try using profanity or screaming out dirty words and phrases. Maybe even graphically ask him if he likes what you are doing and have him tell you why he likes it.
