Things You'll Need:
- Communication
- Patience
- Open mind
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Step 1
Many guys think that fancy restaurants and expensive gifts are the surest way to a women’s heart, while women believe that "going Dutch" and trying to carry your own weight is the modern courting style. The truth is that everyone has a different perception on what is normal when it comes to dating. Some men will be offended if the girl offers to pay, while others will be annoyed if she doesn't. If it's a budding relationship, try to feel each other out. When in doubt, don't be afraid to ask.
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Step 2
Though many women would like you to believe that they aren’t sex crazed animals, this isn’t necessarily the case. Women need and want sex as much as men do. The myth comes into play because of our differing arousals. Women don’t have the same trigger switch that men do. It can take a woman much longer to turn on, so they often need to be eased into sex, but that doesn’t mean they are any less sexual than a man.
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Step 3
The same thing can be said for a man. Men and woman can enjoy sex on an equal plane, we just have very different needs between the sheets. Contrary to popular belief, guys don't always want to get down. It is actually harder to get a man in the mood if he's not than it is to get a woman aroused if she is not.
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Step 4
Women are in love with the fantasy of being chased, but her reality is very different. Women, like men, love a challenge; the pursuit is half the fun. If a man lays on the compliments too thick or tries overly hard to impress her, she'll run screaming for the hillside. Girls revel in their ability to discover a man on her own, so if he's trying to impress her, he's trying too hard.
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Step 5
Many men believe women only want to be with attractive men; but this is more likely a projection of the man’s vanity. The truth is that women hold looks to be much less important then men do. Typically women are more inclined to date men who emanate confidence. An exciting personality and sense of humor will win out over tall, dark, and handsome every time.
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Step 6
Men, on the other hand, are more likely to date women who are below their intellectual standard. This isn't because he is shallow, which is what a women would like to believe, but simply because of the rules that guide our attraction. Women are aroused by internal thoughts and fantasies, which makes it easier to see past looks, while men are aroused by what they see in a physical and material sense. It is simply the nature of human attraction.
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Step 7
Believe it or not, men are more romantic than woman. Psychologists believe that men fall in love faster, but are able to move on more quickly after a breakup. When a man meets a woman who has a lot of qualities they like, they stop taking in new information, which makes it harder for them to see the things they don't like about her.
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Step 8
Men are inherently less talkative then woman, but that doesn't mean they're unable to communicate in a relationship. In fact, woman can take a cue from men every once in awhile and learn to talk less. What's that they say about actions speaking louder than words? Though it may be a scary thought, communication is the only viable spaceship we have between the two planets.
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Step 9
In today’s society woman like to be considered a man’s equal and men are more and more accepting of feminism. If you're able to see past the game, drop the act and be yourself you’ll start to see through all of the common misconceptions that destroy relationships.
