How to Gain Self-Confidence

Are you the shy type? Do you prefer to stand in the corner while others enjoy the party? Do you want to become more self-confident? History has proven that the person who exhibits self-confidence is the one who will land the promotion, receive the pay raise, and experience life more fully. From social situations to business networks, the person with self-confidence is the one who achieves more. If you are the one standing in the corner or watching that promotion go to your coworker time and time again, then you need to gain self-confidence. After all, no one can be confident in you if you aren’t confident in yourself! Read on to learn more.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• A new outfit
• A new attitude

Gain Self-Confidence

1. Dress the part. One step towards gaining self-confidence is dressing in a way that makes you feel confident. Try bright colors that enhance your appearance and make sure that your outfit is ironed and neat. Avoid baggy clothes that make you feel sloppy and opt for items that will accentuate your best features instead.

2. Step out of your comfort zone. Each day, strive to do a little something that makes you uncomfortable. Start by entering into a conversation that you would normally avoid. Offer to do a small task for someone that will demonstrate your abilities. As you gain confidence, you will be able to attack the bigger things like asking for that promotion or raise.

3. Be assertive. If you have an idea, present it to your boss. Be the first to jump in on the next project your boss is trying to assign to someone. In an argument, stand your ground and make your case.

4. Encourage yourself. It is OK to be proud of your achievements. If you lose weight, it is OK to show off your new figure. If your project was successful, it is OK to allow others to compliment your efforts. Tell yourself every day that you can achieve whatever you want. Before long, you will begin to believe it and show everyone the self-confidence you have.

Resources

• Building Self-Confidence in the Workplace

[caramel26]

on 6/19/2009 Great artical!

[jasminemars]

on 11/28/2008 I LOVE this article. Thanks!