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Step 1
Keep the celebration of Mother's Day in perspective. A wise psychologist and counselor once stated that if you have a good relationship with your mother, you don't need a special day once a year to recognize it. And if you don't, one day a year isn't going to make a difference anyway. Resist the feeling that you must make Mother's Day spectacular. Unrealistic expectations regarding any special occasion only lead to disappointment.
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Step 2
Have a plan ahead of time if you are using a shopping trip to celebrate Mother's Day. If you are taking Mom out to let her choose the gift that you are buying for her, establish an amount that you can (or want) to spend. Let her know that amount before you get to the mall.
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Step 3
Get plenty of rest before the big shopping day. Eat well and take a hot bubble bath before going to bed. You must be relaxed in order to have a clear, focused mind. Focus is the key to surviving shopping with your mom on Mother's Day. Remind yourself that you are shopping to honor your mom. No matter how nerve-wracking shopping with her may be, tell yourself that you can handle this once a year.
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Step 4
Ask your mom ahead of time to be thinking of what she would like to buy. This is a vital part of a successful plan if you want to survive shopping with mom on Mother's Day. It makes for extra frustration if you wander aimlessly through store after store before purchasing anything.
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Step 5
Set a time limit that will be comfortable for you. It's a pipe dream to think that every situation in life can be controlled, but shopping with mom is one that can be controlled to some extent. Let her know that you have a certain amount of time to shop that day, and no more.
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Step 6
Stay positive and cheerful at all costs. If your mother happens to be a difficult personality to deal with, watch what you say and avoid controversial subjects with her. Keep the atmosphere as carefree as possible. Accomplish your mission of getting the gift or gifts and go home feeling good about Mother's Day.
