How to Have a Muslim Wedding

A Muslim wedding is typically a multi-day event. But, traditionally the ritual itself, called a nikah in Arabic, is quite simple. The engagement ceremony, known as The Mangni, is when rings are exchanged. The groom's family provides the bride's outfit. Follow these steps to have a Muslim wedding ceremony.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

1. Anoint the bride with turmeric paste during the Manjha ceremony. This happens at the bride's house two days before the wedding. The groom's family provides the paste of turmeric, chameli oil and sandalwood.
2. Apply henna to the bride's hands and feet. Only unmarried women participate in this. A spot is also applied to the groom as a symbolic token. The bride isn't allowed to leave her house until the wedding ceremony.
3. Have family and friends proceed with the groom from his place to the wedding ceremony location. If there isn't a concrete covered area available, erect a shamiana, which is a large decorated tent.
4. Beat drums and play musical instruments while the groom arrives. The groom then exchanges a class of sharbet and money with the bride's brother.
5. Start the ceremony as the priest asks the bride and groom if they're happy with the arrangement and agree with the marriage. The priest then reads a selection from the Koran.
6. Register the marriage. The groom and two witnesses sign it immediately. The bride signs it at a later time. The groom gives gifts and money to the bride's sisters.
7. Seat the bride and groom together following their first meal. Use a long scarf to cover their heads while the priest has them read prayers. The couple is permitted to see each other through the reflection of mirrors.

Tips & Warnings

• The groom's family provides the bride with her wedding day clothing.
• Have the bride's sisters welcome the guests by playfully hitting them with a stick. Wrap the stick with flowers.
• Two men and a lawyer or eminent person must witness the reading of the Koran.
• Serve dinner separately to the women and men.
• The groom's family eats separately.