How to Become a Better Lover

By Dlaniger

How to Become a Better Lover How to Become a Better Lover

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So, you think you are the gift from the universe to the opposite sex. Guess what? You’re not. As good as you are (or even if you believe you’re not so good), you can be a better lover.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Step1
Get on a healthy diet. Drink at least 6 glasses of water per day. A good serving of fruits and vegetables (daily) will help to increase your energy and provide much of the needed antioxidants, which help keep the blood clean and flowing more smoothly. This will help a man maintain an erection longer.
Step2
Exercise to build a healthy heart and increase your stamina. The build up to that special moment, then, the 2 minute actual event, can get old very quickly.
Step3
Understand that making love is not about you. It is a mutual activity. Your mindset should be about how to please your mate first and then yourself. Lasting for a long time or being the biggest doesn’t make you a great lover.
Step4
Keep an open mind. Find out what your partner likes and try to do it. Understand that when you’re in a relationship, people change and evolve. Always inquire about what they may want to do. Try new things (with your partner’s approval).
Step5
After the event, don't ask how it was. Ask what they would want to happen next time, and prepare to deliver on that request.

Tips & Warnings

  • Always know that you can improve at everything you do. Don’t seek perfection. Seek to be your best.

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on 9/1/2008 Great tips, hope as many men as possible read your article.

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