How to Discipline Children with Time-Outs
Time-out is one discipline method parents can try with children from an early age. The idea is for the child to step away from whatever the offending action is, and stand or sit in a quiet place for a specified amount of time. According to the Center for Effective Parenting, it really means a time for no attention. While the child is in time-out, the parent should not watch or speak to the child.
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Instructions
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Pick a designated location in the house where the time-outs will take place. This must be a "boring" place where the child has no access to toys, a TV, a computer or any other distractions.
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Establish a time frame for the time-out, and discuss it with the child. The Center for Effective Parenting says time out should be applied to children who refuse to follow parental directions within 5 seconds, engage in dangerous behavior, or perform unacceptable acts like biting or hitting siblings. Explain to the child once what will happen if the action is repeated, and follow-through on this threat if the child does it again.
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Explain to the offending child why she is being put in time-out, and either order her to the boring place or take her there. The time should be age-appropriate. A 3-year-old sitting for 3 minutes will usually learn his lesson. However, 3 minutes is too short for a 10-year-old. A 10-minute time-out is more appropriate.
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Explain to the child that he is not to speak during time-out, or move from the space unless there is some emergency. Make it clear to him that any violation will extend the punishment.
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Use a calm, but firm voice when you order the child to time-out. Do not argue with the child about the decision and ignore anything the child says in protest. If you are not firm about these decisions, the child will not learn to fear a time-out.
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Tips & Warnings
For older kids, who need a little more try the nose in the corner or hold books straight out, like our teachers did so many years ago!
By following simple steps your child will grow to love and appreciate you more for what you have taught them!
