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Step 1
Examine your past relationships and dating situations carefully. Uncovering the patterns that tend to emerge will help you understand any unfounded expectations you will have on your date.
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Step 2
Prepare your date outfit in advance. Your outfit should show off your best physical features, feel comfortable and be free from any rips or stains.
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Step 3
Practice good hygiene before your date. Make sure your hair, skin, nails and breath are clean and healthy.
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Step 4
Check your attitude. Think positive thoughts about yourself and expect the date to go well. When you feel good about yourself, you're more likely to have a good time and get a second date.
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Step 5
Decide what you are willing or not willing to do physically with your date. Since the range of options includes everything from a chaste kiss on the cheek to wild sex, many people find it helpful to know ahead of time how much physical intimacy they are willing to engage in. More importantly, be firm and unwavering to your date about the boundaries you have set up for yourself.
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Step 6
Be on time. Make sure you allow plenty of time for you to meet your date, whether she is meeting you in a public place or he is picking you up at your door.












