How to Approach a Man

By MrSmooth

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Most women wonder if its ok to approach a man. I've been asked several times by my female friends or their friends, why is it so hard to get a date. Well the answer is, To approach the guy you want yourself and its not so hard to do. In my article I will show you an easy way to get his attention and approach him.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Step1
The first step in meeting the right guy is to make sure he is your type of guy. Don't settle for someone that you are not attracted to,even if you think this guy won't be attracted to you.
Step2
The second step is to get his attention, with eye contact and a nice smile. If you are walking toward each other don't walk to fast, slow the pace down to give him a chance to notice you and feel the vibe. If he is seated or just standing get his attention with a little a stare and smile to see if he is interested in you. Most guy that are interested will do the same. smile and stare for a good amount of time to show your interest. About 3 to 5 seconds or a little longer but not too long.Don't make him think too much of himself or think you are a crazy woman with too long of a stare. This is acceptable if he is walking toward you.If he smiles back and stare the same, he is most definitely attracted to you.
Step3
The third step is to speak to him. just walk up to him and say hi or hey, in a soft voice but appropriate voice. Next, listen to his tone in his voice when he speaks back. The first couple of words will let you know if he is interested in talking to you right now. If he smile and speak, you are in good position. The interest is on.

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on 5/2/2008 This is awesome advice,,,thanks!:)

MrSmooth said

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on 11/28/2007 Did you do it to see if it would work or you really wanted to talk to this guy?

MsPretty said

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on 11/28/2007 I just tried this what you and it actually works. I was scared at first but it worked.

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on 1/28/2008 I have had a chance to talk to mr. smooth on blackplanet.com and he really gave me some good tips on the situation that i was in. I really want to thank you.

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