How to Visit a Newborn

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By jbuskirk
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After more than nine months of anticipation, people can hardly wait to meet a new bundle of joy. No matter how exited you are, it's important to remember some guidelines when meeting a newborn for the first time.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

A gift
Antibacterial soap

How to Visit a Newborn

Step 1

Before meeting a brand new baby, buy a gift. It doesn't have to be extravagant; just something to say, "welcome." It's also a good idea to bring a meal for the new parents.
Step 2

Realize the parents are going to be tired and overwhelmed. Make a point to ask how they are before fawning over the baby.
Step 3

New moms are overprotective, so don't ask to hold the baby. Wait until mom or dad offer.
Step 4

Wash your hands with antibacterial soap before touching the baby.
Step 5

Bonding is critical those first few days, so don't keep the baby from his parents for too long.
Step 6

Ask mom or dad if it's ok before passing the baby off to the next person.
Step 7

The new family needs its rest, so don't overstay your welcome.

Tips & Warnings

If the baby starts to cry, don't try to comfort her yourself. It's excruciating for a new mom to hear her baby upset and she would rather comfort the baby herself.
If there's an older sibling present, make sure you bring a gift for him too. Pay him special attention before holding the baby.