Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Things You’ll Need:
Step1
presents
Find out who's going and stay positive. For instance, if you know that aunt jane doe gets a bit loud after she's had a few drinks, then try to avoid her or be her best friend. Don't offend her or make fun of her. Be patient.
Step2
presents
If you know that uncle john doe likes to criticize every present under fifty or likes to show off how much he spent on a present, then leave your presents and skip the 'opening the presents' part. And remind your children that certain people are that way and that they shouldn't follow the same example but assure them they should accept them no matter what.
Step3
Bite your tongue. It can get frustrating sometimes if everytime you go to a gathering someone is screaming or drinking or being a showoff but try not to say anything unless you are absolutely certain that the person won't get offended. Unless you don't mind them banning you for the next hundred years.
Step4
Skip it all together and mail your presents. Sometimes not going at all can be relieve the headaches. But if your family comes from all over to celebrate Christmas, making the effort to show up would be a better idea.
Comments
juliesam3 said
on 11/28/2007 In the beginning it was fine then everyone started to have families and we ended doing what you do.
CCrock said
on 11/27/2007 good article! Don't let obnoxious relatives ruin the holidays and christmas spirit for your family. To keep presents giving under control, everyone in my family draws a name out of a hat and we have a set amount that we all agree on spending.