How to Get a Psychic/Spiritual Reading

In an increasingly unpredictable world, we all try to find some semblance of predicting the future so that we at least have some time to prepare. More and more people are turning to what is considered New Age practices in order to get a handle on their lives. Tarot, runes, and astrology are the more common forms of divination. There is also what is called a spiritual reading, where the practitioner reads your aura instead of physical objects. But as more people embrace this metaphysical area, so increases the number of charlatans and scam artists. This article will help you figure out how to get a legitimate reading.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Yourself
• A tape recorder (if one is not provided)
• Referrals
• An open mind

1. Determine what type of reading you want. Do you like the pictorial representation of tarot cards? Are you intrigued by rune symbols? Have you become fascinated by palm readers? Each person is different and has an affinity toward a certain type of divination. Select the one that works for you. If you are unsure, then just ask around or do research. There is a lot of information on the Internet and in bookstores (most of which have specific sections for divination tools). Trust that the universe will lead you to the method that is right for you.

2. Get a referral. There are many ads in newspapers, on the Internet, and on the TV and radio about psychics, in all their manifestations (tarot readers or others). Some are especially tempting due to their emphasis on “free” readings and toll-free numbers to dial. To decrease the chances of getting cheated, it’s best to get a referral from someone you know and trust. This not only diminishes the likelihood that you and your money will be parted in an abrupt and unpleasant manner, but the peace of mind that comes from a trusted referral will go a long way toward a successful reading.

3. Make sure the referral is a good fit. Before you sit down and let a stranger into your aura or head (and wallet), make sure that you and the provider are on the same page. Feel free to ask questions about clientele, length of time doing readings, how she or he performs readings, any certifications that he or she may have (for example, the American Tarot Association certifies tarot readers up to the International Grand Master level and offers continuing education classes). If the provider takes offense at your questions, then thank them for their time and find someone else. Any practitioner worth her salt will not find such questions intrusive.

4. Make an appointment. Most solo practitioners will not do a reading on the spur of the moment; the truly successful have a loyal clientele and appointments are preferred. Making an appointment ensures that you have sufficient time to address any concerns that have prompted you to get a reading and can do so in a relaxed, private atmosphere.

5. Ask the proper questions. When getting a reading, it’s best not to ask “yes or no” questions; the practitioner usually does not receive answers in such a black-and-white manner. Instead, ask what you need to know about a certain area of your life (e.g., career, love, finances) or a particular situation (e.g., would it be better for me to move to Vermont, or stay in Kentucky?). Avoid questions such as “Will she come back to me?” or “Will I get pregnant?”, or questions to test the practitioners abilities, such as “Do I have cancer?”. Don’t waste your money or your (and the practitioner’s) time on trivialities.

Tips & Warnings

• Make sure to tape the reading so that you can go back and refer to it later...especially if aspects of the reading come to pass! If you are getting an online reading, make sure to save the email or electronically generated report for future reference.
• Wait at least two (2) weeks between readings, even readings by different divination methods. Energies that the practitioner picks up on during the reading take about two weeks to manifest as they should.
• Some practitioners have a nice side business going by offering candles, oils, incense, and other items designed to help a person “fix” problems in their lives, for an additional fee. If you really feel that you need such remedies, then so be it. But often it’s best just to let events unfold without extra "assistance".