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How to Get Your Crush to Like You

How to Get Your Crush to Like You
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By jbeck94
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Sick of your crush not noticing you? Here are the best tips for getting your crush to like you.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • Self Confidence
  • Courage
  • A Crush
  1. Step 1

    The best tip to get your crush to like you is to be yourself. If you spend a ton of time creating a persona that isn't you to get your crush, it will backfire. What if your crush started liking you? You would have to keep it up, and it would be a fake relationship. A good guy/girl will like you just the way you are.

  2. Step 2

    You need to have confidence. If you shy away, no guy/girl will like you. Guys and girls like someone who is self confident. No one will be looking at that microscopic zit on your chin, so just walk up, say hi, and be yourself.

  3. Step 3

    Find out from your crush or crushes friends what he/she likes. Using this, you can talk about that with them, and they will be interested. People like to talk about themselves, so ask them questions. Don't act like you are interviewing them, though.

  4. Step 4

    Flirt, but not overly. Just be natural.Here are some good ways to flirt.

    -When walking in the hallway, don't act like you have been looking for them. When you are walking near them, act like you have just noticed them, make eye contact, and smile.
    -Eye Contact is very important. If you are constantly staring at your feet, the guy/girl will think you like your feet, not them.

  5. Step 5

    If it works, great. If not, don't beat yourself up over it. There are many other guys/girls out there, and it's just a crush. If you find yourself becoming obsessed with someone, tone it down a little. It is only a person.
    GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR CRUSH!

Tips & Warnings
  • Eye Contact
  • Be Yourself
  • Be Confident
  • Don't become overly obsessed
  • If you find yourself stuttering or twitching, take a deep breath and start over.

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on 10/21/2008 my friend has a crush but she just dosnt want to tell anybody lol lol iamo

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on 10/21/2008 this is my friend melissa hi its meli....=)

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on 10/21/2008 i will giveeeee everbody her email and get PAYBACK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and everbody can email her

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on 10/21/2008 i like this boy at school and i am only 9 and a quarter and his name is britton lucas my best friend rachel told everybody so now he hates me what do i do

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