You have to take care of yourself, first and foremost. Trully love and respect YOUSELF, as if you we're a fragile creature who could die at any second.
Always do the right thing.
Step2
In order to do the right think just forget everything you have EVER heard or "learned", about ANYTHING. Forget it all and do what feels "right". Often times, this means not doing anything at all.
on 12/6/2007
Um, I don't think this was advice. I think it may be an emotional rant. Yes, def. take care of yourself, because you need to love yourself and be stable in who you are first, and I guess we all ignore other people's advice in the process and journey of what we call love. Eventually we discover that others were right, but we still needed to have experienced it ourselves.. is that what you're going for? That makes sense- is factual. Um, and yes.. sometimes there is nothing you can do but wait and give things time, but I am a firm believer in trying past when you thought you had given up- if you really love someone that is- there is no giving up on them, there is acceptance of what is. I don't know. I think that you just needed more clarity and steps...
Comments
Cubs said
on 12/6/2007 Um, I don't think this was advice. I think it may be an emotional rant. Yes, def. take care of yourself, because you need to love yourself and be stable in who you are first, and I guess we all ignore other people's advice in the process and journey of what we call love. Eventually we discover that others were right, but we still needed to have experienced it ourselves.. is that what you're going for? That makes sense- is factual. Um, and yes.. sometimes there is nothing you can do but wait and give things time, but I am a firm believer in trying past when you thought you had given up- if you really love someone that is- there is no giving up on them, there is acceptance of what is. I don't know. I think that you just needed more clarity and steps...