Things You'll Need:
- A little starters cash
- Time
- Patience
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Step 1
Get yourself an ass-kicking wardrobe! Have a slave fund your shopping, or if your really new to this, go S&M shopping (leather boots, whips, chains)
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Step 2
Post a listing on Craigslist or any other listing by city offering your services...Dominatrixes make between $250-$1000 an hour!!!
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Step 3
Google domains for Dominatrix websites










Comments
tsunshinelove said
on 6/3/2009 Step 4: Sit back in your pretty new outfit and wait for the phone to ring. And wait, and wait, and wait, and wait, and....
jacnro said
on 3/16/2009 Im a switch with my partner, and he and I have been learning from each other. Im more submissive, He's more Dominant, but we both like to trade places every now and again... keeps things interesting. I would say the easiest way to become a Domme (or a sub for that matter) is just be yourself, but a more D/s version... there is no how-to on this matter.. each experience is personal, how can someone else tell you what will be good in your situation?just feel it out. talk at yourself in the shower, as you would to a slave... feel it out, if it works for you, then thats your answer. hope it helps!xoxo
MzLadyDark said
on 1/4/2009 In order to become a Domme..One must truly know Who and What they are as a person. I think the person must decide if they are going to become a "Pro" or "Lifestyle" or both. I agree totally with Miss Bonnie an outfit and a crop does NOT make one a "Domme". There is an art form to this lifestyle. It is imperative that you not go "willy-nilly" into this lifestyle. Playing with a person's mind and trust can lead to dire consequences for both involved. I think in your pyche that need has to be there first. Research and visit a few BDSM sites and talk with Dommes there. Read books. I suggest Elise Sutton as a start. See where that takes you and if this is YOU then be safe and enjoy!!!
MissBonnie said
on 8/3/2008 Domination is art form, a person could be trusting you with there life and well being. you need experience and good teacher..you just can't buy a riding crop put on leather and call yourself a Domme
WebMistress said
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