Step1
There are periods our life is so hurried, so we don't have time to sit and think what is going on with us. Why is this important? Because we lose our own identity trying to adjust in the new situation.
Step2
It is not good to lose your own personal features. You are unique person and each step away from your own personality is a step away from the person God created you to be. Don't let anybody judge your own acts, words or choices. Only God can judge your life someday. Be absolutely true to your own personality' features.
Step3
Spend some time alone outside in the park or in the mountains, at the sea shore. The more time you spend with your thoughts, the more time you spend with your Spirit.
Step4
Search for the things you want to know more about: not Internet only, but bookstores, articles, ask people, watch a movie or shows, related with your interests. Make notes over the things that impressed you most. Each new thought enrich your soul and your spirit.
Step5
Don't give up on your own favorite hobbies and activities. If you liked to draw pictures, draw pictures, if you liked to dance, keep on dancing, if you liked singing, keep on singing. All your gifts are given to you by God to develop them and do something with them. If someone tries to fail your time or your tries to become better, thank God for this challenge that can actually make you stronger.
Step6
The stronger you get, the less negative feelings you keep in your personality. Follow your instincts and your intuition. If you defeat your dark side, you can defeat all the world. Throw all your anger, envy, hatred and despair away. If you can not: keep on trying. We all have started somewhere.
Step7
When you don't want to make a step towards your strength, take two steps instead. If you want to give up on something good, try twice harder. Because the taste of the victory is always sweeter than the taste of the failure. But we pass through countless failures until we start climbing the stairs to our stairway to our own victory. Which is so different and so uniuque for everyone. Some people believe their victory is to achieve applauses and as more money as possible. The wisest one knows what the true victory is about : "To defeat your own weaknesses and to become a true warrior."
Step8
Attract more friends and thank for your enemies. "Your enemies are your biggest admirers." Said Dale Carnegie in his book.
Comments
Elitchka said
on 12/3/2007 Mrs. Wkedwestwitch,THANK YOU FOR YOUR OPINION. YOUR MALICE IS A BIG COMPLIMENT FOR MY WRITING. YOUR ANGER ONLY SHOWS, THAT I UPSET YOU WITH SOMETHING. YOU FEEL TRHEATENED BY MY ARTICLE. I HAVE A PSYCHOLOGY DEGREE, I FEEL PITY FOR YOUR ANGER, YOU HAVE A MISERABLE LIFE AND YOU HAVE TO IMPROVE IT. I CAN GIVE YOU FREE ADVICE: FOCUS ON YOUR OWN HAPPINESS AND GIVE THIS WIKEDWITCH IMAGE BEHIND: IT IS OUT OF FASHION. DO SO MANY PEOPLE HATE YOU? I DOUBT IT. YOUR SELF-HATRED WILL DESTROY YOU. TAKE CARE, GIRL! YOU CAN DO BETTER:) WITH LOVE
Elitchka said
on 12/3/2007 The point of this article is how to be true to your "good" self. It is a piece of cake all of us to be mean and evil. It takes a true HEROISM to be good and true to your "good" side! Good personality doesn't need complications. Complicated manners shows hyporcisy. GENIUS IS ALWAYS SIMPLE. I teach how to be NICE EVEN WITH EVIL AND WICKED PEOPLE. Thank you for spending time biting.
Elitchka said
on 12/3/2007 The point of this article is how to be true to your "good" self. It is a piece of cake all of us to be mean and evil. It takes a true HEROISM to be good and true to your "good" side! Good personality doesn't need complications. Complicated manners shows hyporcisy. GENIUS IS ALWAYS SIMPLE. I teach how to be NICE EVEN WITH EVIL AND WICKED PEOPLE. Thank you for spending time biting.
wikedwestwitch said
on 12/3/2007 Would that life and it's influences COULD be handled in such a simplified manner...with such easy to understand 'answers' and methods for behaviors. If this philosophy 'works' for you? best wishes to you in utilizing it!!! and, thanx for taking the time to share with others.