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Step 1
Encourage kids to give out nicknames only. First names, middle names, and especially last names are unnecessary and dangerous. Even names of parents, relatives, friends, classmates and teachers are off limits.
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Step 2
Persuade kids to steer clear of any information that might suggest where they live. The state, city, street and even school your child goes to should remain private information.
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Step 3
Teach kids to use the phrase “Let me ask my parents first.” Anyone who discourages a kid from doing that should be immediately shut down. Chatters asking for phone numbers or physical descriptions are to be avoided.
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Step 4
Instruct kids that a topic such as sports is acceptable. But who you play for or what team you play on cannot be discussed. Also, what church, synagogue or mosque you attend and anyone who attends with you cannot be a topic for chatting.
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Step 5
Make kids aware that people lie. Doubt everyone and stay wary of chatters who pretend to be people you know. When chatters or topics sound suspicious, leave chatting immediately.
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Step 6
Bring a friend or friends to chat with you. The more people on your side the less likely anyone can fool you. Friends can help you understand what’s happening if you have questions or concerns. Let them support you in the chat room.
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Step 7
Remind kids that you – the parent – know what is and isn’t acceptable or safe. They need to understand that you are always there for support and advice. Chatting is a privilege not a right.
