How to Know If He is Not THAT Into You

We have all been through this! The one-sided relationship where it is all about giving and not getting much back in return. But how can you really tell when ‘enough is enough!’ and shut the door in his face?

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Things You’ll Need:

• Common sense

1. When you realize that you call him five times a day but he has not even called you once a week for the last 3 months. And whenever he does pick up the phone after you have tried a zillion times, he always has an excuse to get off quickly.
2. When you realize that when you have a ‘crisis situation’ you would rather call one of your girlfriends to talk about it because the last few times you noticed he was really drifting off.
3. Whenever you plan a date, you actually find yourself worrying if he would actually show up on time or show up at all!
4. When he keeps avoiding eye contact all the time while talking to you or pretending to be busy reading or watching TV whenever you are trying to bring up a serious topic.
5. When you sleep on the same bed with him for a week and he makes sure he has a pillow separation in the middle so that there is no danger of you trying to cuddle next to him in your sleep.
6. When he would rather be chatting to the people at the next table in a restaurant about the rising gas prices than listening to you talk about your bad day at work.
7. When you are the one who keeps showering him with gifts and he actually doesn’t even send you a card on your birthday when you have actually been hinting about what would be the ideal birthday gift for three weeks beforehand.
8. Whenever you try to smooch him, all you get is a peck.

Tips & Warnings

• It is best to accept that fact that ‘He is just not all that into you’ and walk out before he can do any further damage to your self-esteem. After all, a relationship is two-sided and in the long-term it will not work if you are the one doing all the work.