How to Awakening Your Partner's Sensual Awareness with a Tantra Massage

When you offhandedly mention that you are studying the ancient Hindu and Buddhist craft of Tantra massage and beliefs, you are sure to get at least a raised eyebrow of interest. After all, Tantra massage sounds sensual, and brings on naughty thoughts and a sense of "sensual awareness." The key to a Tantric massage is to liven up the body, not to relax the body. The true purpose is to energize the body with the mind. To surrender to a relax state of deep trust between you and your partner resulting in a connection.
Everyone wants to connect with their partner on a higher level. Tantra massages can give a relationship more that just a sexual connection. It would be nice to connect your mind, body, and soul with your partner. These methods are fully shown by the author of Hot Tantra Sex Games: Sexual Healing with Tantra.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

1. Before you give the Tantric massage, you need to make this an event. So, send a nice invitation to your partner. This can tantalize the mind and body that will reach deep into your partner’s soul. The invitation will help turn this into an event that your partner will remember for a while.

2. The next step in the beginning process is to set up the atmosphere. Atmosphere is important since most humans are visual in nature. If you know what your partner’s favorite color, smell, and music, provides those items to the setting to add a familiar atmosphere. Then add the soft lighting and provide a comfortable lying area. A soft blanket with many bright soft pillows is the ideal setting.

3. The next step is to pick the products that will be the base of your massage. Remember to think of what your partner likes and dislikes. The basic warm baby oil with small rubbing stones is ideal. It is also nice to have a warm dish of water with a washcloth available, in case of excessive oil.

4. You can make your own customized massage oil that adds a sentimental value. By customizing a scent for you and your partner, you will add a connection to your emotional level. The first step to making your own scented massage oil is to select your partner and your favorite scent.

5. The next step is to gather two bottles and add baby oil halfway up the bottle. Now, add six drops of your selected scent, then shake and place in the warm water with the cloth.

6. Now, you are ready to get going with the seven steps that will move energy and awareness through this massage. The Tantric massage treats the energy and the physical of the massage on different levels. The Tantric massage works the Aura energy on the outside of the body while the affirming touching massages the physical sensual awareness and the experimenting with freestyle brings partner’s awareness to sexual boundaries.

7. Remember, there is nothing worst than a pair of cold hands on a warm body to turn the mood toward the Artic atmosphere. Therefore, the preparation of your massaging tools, your hands, is vital. By placing several drops of warm oil on your hands and rubbing in a circular motion will generate a nice set of heated hands. Now you are ready to start the massage. Remember the skin is the most erotic zone we have so know if your partner likes a light touch or a rough tough.

8. The last step in this Tantric massage is freestyle. Freestyle is where you can implement your own massage movement. It doesn’t have to be a circular motion. It could be a sideway thumb motion or a scratching motion. Now it is time for you to switch places and continue to become awake and aware of both your sexual needs.

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on 7/20/2008 I've found that achieveing deep relaxation is more important in Tantric massage rather than livening up the body. I also recommend using unscented grapeseed oil rather than baby oil as this is a natural product. For more information check out www.freewebs.com/sensualawakening