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Step 1
Be aware of the benefits if you date online. Screen who you meet and talk to. You can remain anonymous if you like and only send photos to people you like and feel comfortable talking with. Also, you will can speak to someone online for as long as you want and decide later if you want to date.
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Step 2
Think of what you want to put on your profile. Do a rough draft on paper and write about what you like, dislike, your hobbies and what you enjoy doing for fun. Be personable, friendly, and honest. Once you find the website to join, you can easily upload your profile description.
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Step 3
Research different websites such as fastcupi.com, chemistry.com, match.com and lavalife.com. Joining a website and create a username. It is best to use an alias and not your real name.
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Step 4
Decide whether to post a photo. Some people do not like to post their photos on the Internet for everyone to see. It can be a sensitive matter after a divorce as well. You can email with someone and then swap photos through email when you are ready to. However, you should know that profiles with photos get 10 to 20 times more responses than profiles alone.
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Step 5
Search through ads. You can put in a specific search on most online dating websites and look for someone 6'4 tall with brown hair and blue eyes. Most of these websites will find the closest match to any keywords you enter.
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Step 6
Talk to people at a level you are comfortable with. You can write for as long as you want and there is no rush to go on a date. Explain you went through a divorce and are taking things slow. Ideally, you want to connect with someone who understands your situation and displays patience.
