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Step 1
Ensure that you enter the process being open and honest. If you are in a relationship, have your partner agree to the idea of meeting swingers online. The honesty should continue when you are actually preparing to meet the swingers. Dishonesty can only hurt your relationship in this process.
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Step 2
Go to the Swingers Online website. This site is dedicated to connecting swingers all around the world. With a membership growing at over 2,000 members per day, you can find many options.
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Step 3
Proceed to do a search of the Swingers Online membership database. On the left hand column of the homepage, select the correct options in the pull down menus. After you answer those questions, press the "Find" button. On the next page, you will see a listing of swingers in the membership database which match your qualifications.
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Step 4
Contact the swingers that interest you. After you correspond via email or the telephone and you are comfortable, you can plan to meet. Remember to use caution throughout the entire process and most importantly in the meeting process. It's usually the safest option to make the first meeting take place in a public place. If at any point in the process, your partner decides that swinging isn't something they want to do, honor their wishes.
Comments
monsterblue said
on 10/26/2009 I run a swingers club in South Africa (www.planetk.co.za) and must say I agree with some of what has been said above.
Unfortunately, no matter how nice the emails and chat and pictures may be, they never really prepare you for the first meeting.
When online, be careful how much personal info you give away.That person you are chatting to may not be everything they seem. Remember that it costs you nothing to meet someone, you can always walk away.
Which site is best? Thats simply a matter of personal choice.
metwo1 said
on 8/13/2009 Hm we have been in the lifestyle for 4 years and have met quite a lot of real swingers on www.sdc.com. Not sure why you had a bad experience but in our opinion still the best site our there. Some others are good as well but we stick to SDC.
akkamervin said
on 8/4/2009 My wife amy and I are using www.swingsation.com for a couple of weeks now. We like it a lot, because unlike other swingers platforms, Swingsation doesn't seem to have any fake profiles, and only real swinger couples and singels, because of a smart validation program and great video chat options. At websites like SDC a lot of fake profiles slipped through unfortunately. We experienced some great, hot high quality sex dates the last couple of weeks by using Swingsation.com, so we are a happy couple!
stargazinc said
on 3/15/2008 http://www.online4love.com is the primary way my husband and I meet likeminded "friends with benefits." There's no uncomfortable wondering if you ought to approach someone, you already know upfront when you meet them, and it is definitely worth the extra cost of becoming silver/gold imo, so you can exchange notes or pics before meeting and make sure its a good fit.
My hubby is str8 and I am bi and we have had no problem finding partners on online4love.com. We've had fun sex with lots of single men, single women and full swap couples that we met on O4L. And yes, I'm real, and no, I don't work for O4L or think they're perfect (they can be pricey and they goober up email sometimes,) but I think they're the best thing going by far for meeting other people who just want to have sex without strings!