How to Approach a Guy
Traditionally, it is up to men to approach women they wish to get to know or date. However, there is no rule that says women must wait for guys to make the first move. With a little confidence, women can approach attractive and interesting guys -- a welcome change for men who are too shy to approach women.
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Give yourself a mini pep talk. It is natural to be scared of rejection, but pumping yourself up with self-encouragement will help you feel more confident and attractive.
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Think like a man. Remember a time when a man asked you out and copy his actions. Many men react positively to people who mimic their same qualities.
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Use wit to break the ice and make conversation. Making him laugh will put both of you at ease and you will feel more confident in your decision to ask him out.
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Exhibit positive body language to signal both confidence and interest. Turn your body toward him and keep your arms uncrossed.
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Establish a rapport and be direct. The ultimate goal of approaching an interesting man is to secure a date. Take some time to have a conversation, flirt and then ask him out. The longer you wait, the harder it will be to ask him.
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Secure his contact information before leaving. Scoring a date with an attractive man means nothing if you do not have a way to contact him to make plans.
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