How to Recognize Signs of Teen Dating Violence

Statistics indicate that most teens have either experienced or know someone who has experienced violence in a dating relationship. Dating violence unfolds physically, sexually or psychologically. While victims include both boys and girls, girls tend to suffer from more serious injuries and fear. Read on to learn how to recognize teen dating violence.

Instructions

1. Recognize that dating violence often centers around control. One teen wants to control the other by making all decisions, often keeping the victim away from others as well.

2. Witnessing extreme jealousy in a relationship is a warning sign. Possessiveness isn't love. Neither is pushing for a serious relationship too soon.

3. Look for threatening behavior towards you or others. Bruises and black eyes signal violence, so does making verbal threats or destroying things. Violent teens often blame acts of violence on someone else, i.e. "she made me do it."

4. Understand that teen victims of violence often want to hide signs of that violence from others. Wearing long sleeves or turtlenecks in warm weather could mean someone is trying to hide bruises or other signs of physical violence.

5. Know that forcing anyone to have sex is an act of violence.

6. Look for changes in a teens behavior. Victims of dating violence may change clothing styles, fail at school or quit extracurricular activities. Teens who are in a violent relationship may lose confidence and avoid friends.

7. Take action if anything about a dating relationship worries or frightens you. You've probably picked up on potentially violent behavior. Trust your instincts and get out of the relationship immediately.