How to Respect a Child's Right to Privacy

Many parents struggle with the need to protect their child while still respecting her right to privacy. When safety is paramount, however, a parent needs to learn how to give her child space within established bounds and without compromising trust. Read more on how to protect a child's right to privacy.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

1. Talk to your child about her online computer use. Discuss the hidden dangers of online predators, and educate her about safe Internet practices. Strike a compromise that while the computer must be used in a central location, you won't violate her privacy by reading her personal emails.

2. Discourage your child from locking her bedroom door. Many children retreat to the comfort of their bedroom in order to be alone. Make a deal with your child that if the door is closed, no one should enter without first knocking.

3. Work to make your child feel safe. Children will often keep secrets if they feel their safety is threatened. Likewise, they are more likely to keep secrets if they feel that mom or dad might get mad. Explain to your child that secrets can be hurtful and damaging and that while you might not always like what she has to say, you are always available to listen.

4. Teach your child that it is okay to say "no" to an adult, even you. Respect your young child's right to privacy when she wants to use the bathroom by herself or go into a dressing room alone. Even a young child values modesty and privacy. Help your child to understand that parents, teachers and doctors should always ask permission before touching, examining or looking at her in a way that might make her feel uncomfortable.

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[eeveegirl10]

on 7/27/2008 Thank you so much for writing this! My daughter has been getting secretive and now I understand why!