How to Orgasm by Oral Stimulation

Oral sex is a type of sexual act you perform by bringing your partner to climax through sucking and licking your partner's genitals. Being skilled at oral sex can please your partner and may increase your chances of your partner returning the favor. Follow the steps below to give your partner a toe-curling orgasm he won't soon forget.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Bring a Woman to Orgasm

1. Start slowly--many women like it when their partner takes his time and appreciates her body.
2. Lick her vagina from the vaginal opening all the way to her ****oris.
3. Move your tongue from her inner lips to her outer labia. Suck her lips into your mouth and run your tongue over them. Be sure to give the other side the same amount of attention.
4. Vary the pressure and speed of your licks to help maximize the pleasure.
5. Return to the ****oris often since most women can only achieve orgasm from ****oral stimulation.
6. Suck her ****oris into your mouth as her pleasure becomes more intense, continually sucking and flicking it with your tongue.

Bring a Man to Orgasm

7. Lick the head of the penis. Most of his nerve endings reside in this area.
8. Suck the head of his penis into your mouth. Continue to lick the tip with your tongue.
9. Open your mouth and insert as much of his penis as you can in your mouth. It's alright if you can't take all of it. Depending on its size, it may be difficult. Close your lips firmly around the shaft of his penis and slowly pull it out of your mouth until your lips reach the head and then re-insert it. Continue this motion until the man achieves orgasm.
10. Vary your rhythm and add a twisting motion with your head to increase the stimulation. Use your tongue to lick the head of his penis.

Tips & Warnings

• Combine the oral techniques with finger play, either around her vaginal opening or anus (or both) for heightened pleasure.
• If you become tired it's alright to take a break and stroke his penis with your hand. You may also combine the two techniques by placing your hand around the shaft of his penis and stroking in rhythm to your head motions.
• The scrotum is also a sensitive area that you shouldn't neglect. Don't be afraid to cup the testicles in your hands and rub them, just do so gently as the pleasure can easily turn to pain.