By
eHow Culture & Society Editor
Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Step1
Be honest with yourself and to those around you. You probably already have an idea of what kind of group you want to belong to. You do not have to pretend to be someone else.
Step2
Be aware of what is going on around you. Cults pass themselves off as something else everyday.
Step3
Understand what each group offers. Do not be afraid to ask questions.
Step4
Research the group. Investigate and figure out exactly what the group is about and what they actually believe in. If you are told not to say anything about the meetings, or who the members are, you more than likely are involved with a group with secrets, and secrets can be dangerous.
Step5
Avoid "rock star" leaders. Any group that worships their leader is probably not the right group for you.
Step6
Be aware of high initiation fees. Religion is not about money.
Step7
Avoid Doomsday Cults. These cults will try to talk you into buying certain items for the end of the world. There is plenty of evidence in the past regarding Doomsday Cults and the outcome of their futuristic beliefs.
Step8
Do what feels right and suits you.