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Step 1
Fantasize about someone you find sexually attractive. This can be a celebrity or someone you see on a daily basis. Don't make the fantasy like a hardcore porn movie. Use the fantasy for arousal so you can masturbate, not as a substitute porn movie.
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Step 2
Have phone sex with your partner. This option allows you the enjoyment of engaging in a sexual activity when distance or other circumstances keep you apart from one another. Phone sex helps you masturbate from start to finish.
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Step 3
Read an erotic book which describes sexual acts with vivid detail. Use these scenes as a jumping off point for your own fantasy, or as the only form of stimulation when you masturbate. Some people believe reading erotic novels is more intense than watching porn. You may find you prefer erotic novels to porn movies once you experience them.
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Step 4
Use a sex toy. Erotic toy companies make a variety of sex toys for men and women. Men can use jelly sleeves or cock rings when they masturbate. Women can use a dildo or vibrator. Using sex toys in conjunction with any of the previous steps can enhance your experience when you masturbate.









