How to Masturbate a Man

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When you masturbate a man you use your hands to stimulate his penis to the point of orgasm. Masturbation is one of the safest sex acts since there is no contact between genitals. Masturbation is a good way to discover what feels good to your partner and can heighten your sex life. Follow these steps to learn how to masturbate a man.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Step 1

Rub lubricant or lotion onto his penis before you begin to masturbate him. If your man is circumcised, lubrication is absolutely necessary or you could rub his penis raw. Uncircumcised men also enjoy lubrication being used because it heightens their sexual pleasure.
Step 2

Make a fist around the base of his penis. Be careful not to squeeze too hard or he will lose his erection.
Step 3

Move your hand slowly up and down his penis. Ask your partner to let you know when he is getting close to orgasm so you can rub his penis faster.
Step 4

Communicate with your partner and ask him what feels good to him. Some men enjoy having their testicles rubbed and others like to apply pressure to their perineum (the area between the scrotum and the anus) when they are close to orgasm.
Step 5

Help him orgasm by increasing the pace and pressure of your rubbing when he lets you know he is close to orgasm.
Step 6

Clean up his semen using a clean rag or tissue. If you desire you can lick his semen off of him; many men find it very arousing.