How to Masturbate a Man

When you masturbate a man you use your hands to stimulate his penis to the point of orgasm. Masturbation is one of the safest sex acts since there is no contact between genitals. Masturbation is a good way to discover what feels good to your partner and can heighten your sex life. Follow these steps to learn how to masturbate a man.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Rub lubricant or lotion onto his penis before you begin to masturbate him. If your man is circumcised, lubrication is absolutely necessary or you could rub his penis raw. Uncircumcised men also enjoy lubrication being used because it heightens their sexual pleasure.

2. Make a fist around the base of his penis. Be careful not to squeeze too hard or he will lose his erection.

3. Move your hand slowly up and down his penis. Ask your partner to let you know when he is getting close to orgasm so you can rub his penis faster.

4. Communicate with your partner and ask him what feels good to him. Some men enjoy having their testicles rubbed and others like to apply pressure to their perineum (the area between the scrotum and the anus) when they are close to orgasm.

5. Help him orgasm by increasing the pace and pressure of your rubbing when he lets you know he is close to orgasm.

6. Clean up his semen using a clean rag or tissue. If you desire you can lick his semen off of him; many men find it very arousing.

Tips & Warnings

• If you stop rubbing when he gets close and give him a chance to relax before you start rubbing again, you can induce a more intense orgasm.
• Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Masturbating your partner is supposed to be enjoyable for both of you.

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[DanielieLCD]

on 1/2/2010 LOL I didn't think articles would be written about this but I dared to see!

[mildredsor]

on 12/10/2009 I wanted to do it to my boyfirend but I didn't had a clue on how is it for guys, and I HATE porn movies, i watched a video about this but i found the article better ^^ does everyman like it to last a long time?

[mildredsor]

on 12/10/2009 I wanted to do it to my boyfirend but I didn't had a clue on how is it for guys, and I have porn movies, i watched a video about this but i found the article better ^^ does everyman like it to last a long time?

[tomtheboom]

on 12/9/2009 same

[soniclight]

on 11/26/2009 Make it more of a meditation-passion, make it last. So many men--and some women also--are socially programmed to value speed, techniques, performance and especially "the finish line" (ejaculation/orgasm). There is so much more available on the way there if everyone just slooooo-ows down and really savors each sensation, stroke, every ebb and flow. Try breathing together naturally during this or any other sexual communication, with eye contact -- it can get downright borderline mystical, becoming kind of like two people in one body. And of course this overall savoring and be-here-now approach applies to pleasuring a female partner too. In short: Sexual pleasure and masturbation should be about really being present for one another and sharing joy -- not just jackin' and/or jillin' each other, people :o) ~~~ One Man's P.O.V. ~~~ (Yup, a dude actually wrote this)