Things You'll Need:
- courage
- honesty
- a few good recipes
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Step 1
Identify your companionship needs. Be sure you know what you want in a companion at this point in your life. Are you young and just want to have fun? Wnat a ski buddy? How about Mr./Ms. Right?
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Step 2
Don't be afraid to ask for what you want! Tell the universe what you want, write it on a piece of paper, document your needs as a way of making them more concrete(-this goes for anything, not just companionship).
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Step 3
Sit back and relax. By this, I don't mean be passive. Go out, have fun wiht your friends, shop, do whatever makes you happy. Apply to grad school, clean your house up. Go to the gym. Whatever.
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Step 4
Identify when "someone special" walks into your life, even if it is just for a passing moment or two. Give 'em a smile, a nod, a compliment. Maybe you just like their scarf. Tell them, and walk away. If the feeling grabs you, ask them to grab a coffee with you, or just give them your number. Always be safe and trust your intuition.
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Step 5
If it gets to this point and you like them, have them take you out, meet them for a movie, etc. If you decide you want him to be your special someone, finding his heart through his stomach has always been a sure thing. Find out his favorite type of food and whip up something tasty! Same thing applies to the guys. Cook her dinner. These and other "oral favors" are sure to win you a devotee for life, or however long you decide you want one for ;)!
