How to have a great sex life

Look at any magazine or tune into any tv station and you see the control that sex has over our lives. We are bombarded with images and stories of people who have great sex, but how do we achieve that? If it was sold in shops, stock would sell out in minutes. But it's got nothing to do with skills or body shape, it's all to do with how you and your partner share the experience.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Things You’ll Need:

• Dedication
• Patience
• Open-mindedness

1. Sex is a spontaneous and wonderful experience that certainly can't be scheduled. Don't expect that great sex will just magic itself out of nowhere. It needs to be allowed time and space to develop.
2. Great sex doesn't have to occur just in the bedroom and it certainly is not only about penetration. Make your partner feel wanted and attractive by showing them affection. Snuggle up to them on the sofa while watching TV, stroke their hair, remind yourself just what is so fabulous about the person sitting beside you.
3. Allow yourself to enjoy sex. It sounds easier than it is. For many people, sex can become stale after a time and almost a chore. Let go of your anxieties, hang ups and guilt and be open and honest sexually with your partner. Trust them to do the same.
4. Communicate your desires to your lover. While you might hope he'll give you a playful spanking, tell him that's what you'd love right now. With time, you'll be able to better understand each other's wants and longings.
5. Reignite the passion in your relationship with spontaneity. It doesn't necessarily have to be a dirty weekend away. It could be a love letter tucked in their lunchbox or a text reminding them how much you care for them.
6. Sharing fantasies with your partner will allow you to expand your sexual repetoire. Have you secretly longed to watch an erotic film with him/her or have sex outdoors? Confidently, tell your partner. Who knows, they may long for that too.
7. Stress is one of the biggest turn-offs, so why not destress together? Share a candle-lit bath or walk hand-in-hand at a local beauty spot to clear your mind and relax.