How to improve your relationship

How to improve your relationship with your guy by looking at all aspects of the relationship.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Things You’ll Need:

• Strong determination
• Insightful ponderings
• Knowing who you are
• Knowing who he is

1. Improving your relationship with your guy, whether your 80 years old or 14, the question, it is worth the effort? If you are looking at this now it definitely means you are looking at the possibility of improvement.
2. Know who you are and what pet peeves you have not only with yourself but with him. The little things are not the problem unless you are so picky that even putting the toilet paper on the wrong way irritates you. If this is so you definitely need to take a long look at yourself and see how you can change the situation. Normally someone is stressed out and causing the little things irritability.
3. Know him! Know Her! A very important thing to remember is that you chose him for a reason. Did you like his smile? Or maybe just the large muscles. Men we know what you like but remember there was also a brain with the amenities. If you have a problem with her looks now than before no subtle nudging is going to do you any favors. Take a picture of now and place it inconspicuously beside and old picture. This will get her attention. It got my attention.
4. And always remember discussion is the key not yelling at each other or trying to hurt the other person's feelings. I have even ignored the other half until he quit his tirade. He was very greatful.

Tips & Warnings

• The basis to a relationship is remembering what caught your attention in the first place. Go back to that and ask yourself why it is so different now. This will bring you one step closer to the answer to the questions in step 1.
• Always remember it is not a one way street. If your feelings have changed this could also affect the relationship.