How to flirt with a man.

Ladies you just can't catch that guys eye. Well here are some tips to make him notice you.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• your smile
• your hands
• your eyes

1. 

   First things first. How do you feel about yourself? Confidence and self esteem are key in the flirting game. You need to feel good about yourself or you can't expect others to. You are very special and great. You should feel that way.

2. 

   The way you dress has a little to do with flirting. You can flirt in that old beat-up sweat suit and get results. The thing that really matters is your personal hygiene. People can flirt covered in mud but its not the sexiest way to go about it. Take a few extra minutes to take a shower and dress to your personal comfort.

3. 

   Flirting is not as hard as you may believe. It is easier for some people. The object is to open a line of communication right? Well you must start with eye contact. All of your emotions and feelings are shown through your eyes, in other words you talk through your eyes. You should practice in front of a mirror. Just look at yourself in the mirror and go through your emotions anger, love, amusement, and humor. Give yourself looks that say "I want you" or the all famous "come over here" look. Just practice and these looks will come naturally for you.

4. 

   If you are trying to catch someone's attention from across the room look at them and make sure that they see you looking. I know that your first reaction is to look away but all you have to do is make eye contact. You should start with a playful "your cute, come sit with me" look, or just go for it with the "I want you" look.

5. 

   Now you have the eyes down its time to move to the body. There are many ways to flirt with your body. Lets start with the legs. Crossing your legs shows your femininity due to the fact that most men can't or won't do this. The legs are more sexually oriented than other types of flirting. You can slowly rub the back of your calf with the top of your foot or slowly crossing and uncross your legs is a way to show that you are ready for intimacy.

6. 

   Your hips also emanate sexuality, simply in the fact that women's hips are rounder and softer. Dancing shows off your hips and brings attention to your butt. Dancing to soft music can allow you to sway your hips slowly. There is also the more energetic music that shows how you can move and that you have the stamina to keep up with the music. Some women can just barely move and turn guys heads. For some this is a little more difficult.

7. 

   Your upper torso and breast are also a very sexual point. For this type of flirting usually women wear low cut blouses or something very snug. The way this is done is that you show off your breast, lean over the table or stroke the seam of your blouse. This draws attention to the twins and the eyes of most guys are drawn to your movement.

8. 

   Your hands and arms are another way to flirt. Stroking your hand up your arm is an enticing way to show off your arms. Your hands are one of the most important ways to flirt. Gently touching his arm and smiling or laughing when he says something funny or charismatic is a forward way of flirting. When you laugh don't be too loud, and try not to cackle. Touching a mans thigh is also a way of showing interest. This is the undeniable advance.

9. Stroking your neck with your finger tips is also an attention getter, it shows that you are available and interested. You can also draw attention to your ears with this method.

10. 

    Your lips are key to flirtation. Smiling is a simple way of flirting. Laughing at the right moments and smiling brightly shows your interest. This also shows that you are listening. Guys also like a good listener. Drawing attention to your mouth helps out. If you have a drink bring it to your mouth or rub the straw across your lips. Eating is a good way to draw attention to your mouth. You can draw attention to your mouth with your fingers, the easiest approach is to rest your elbows on a table or other surface and slowly rubbing your thumb across your bottom lip.

11. 

    You can also play with your hair or brush it aside to draw attention there.

12. 

    The way you use your body is also a large part of flirting. This is of course called the lean. To lean towards means that you are open for engagement. To lean away from someone can mean one of two things that you are shy or that you are uninterested.

13. 

    Women did you know that when you raise your arms that you let out pheromones. Most men say that they become more interested when they see a woman's nude underarm.

14. 

    Conversation is the biggest flirt of all. If you have nothing else there is always conversation. This is where you can tell the person what you think and share your views. You do not always have to agree but when you disagree do not be rude. Nicely tell him how you feel on the subject. Try and always smile while holding a conversation. If you are uniquely interested you can reach out and touch him to give him the confidence to go on.

Tips & Warnings

• Be yourself
• talk don't just sit there
• show him what your working with and don't be shy
• you do not have to dress like a
• to flirt
• rudeness stops all efforts
• grabbing him and pushing yourself on him is way past flirting and into the sexual nature

Resources

• all photos from fotosearch

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[johnrapp]

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