How to Make Befriend Someone With Asperger's Syndrome

Though social problems can arise so, too, can meaningful friendships

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Asperger's Syndrome, which is defined as a mild form of Autism, can typically lead to socially awkward behavior. However, many people with this condition strive for friendship - they just don't know how to achieve it.

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Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

Patience
Understanding
Empathy
A willingness to meet new people
A willingness to understand and accept the unfamiliar

Step1

Engage in a few brief conversations or interactions with the person.

Step2

Offer up a compliment or ask for advice to soften things up once you've had a few initial interactions.

Step3

Engage in a few activities that your new friend has suggested or seems to want to do.

Step4

Ask them about their favorite activities, hobbies and sports and who they usually engage in these activities with.

Step5

Ask them about the people they are closest to in their lives and what makes these people special.

Step6

Continue participating in activities and conversation with the person for the amount of time that is tolerable for them. This will continue to establish a bond and build trust.

Step7

Research Asperger's Syndrome to develop a sound understanding of what the condition entails and how those close to this type of person is able to relate to them.

Step8

Extend the types and longevity of activities based on the other person's comfort level.

Tips & Warnings

Remember that at certain times or during certain activities many people with this disorder feel they have to do something "their way" or on "their terms." Try not to let it result in feeling taken for granted or not appreciated.
Try to be understanding to selfish behaviors or blunt statements. If it seems appropriate, you can note that such behaviors or comments are hurtful, but use common sense when stating any offenses.
Many people with Asperger's participate in certain monotonous rituals and don't do well with change. Keep these issues in mind when interacting with your friend. Remember that surprises, though well meaning, are not always appreciated.