How to Become Friends With a Foreigner

There are simple steps one can take to make friends with that foreign person in your classroom, aerobics class or boardroom. Follow them and in no time you will be rewarded with a multifaceted friendship.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Smile at that person. This is very important. A kind smile can feel so welcoming.
2. Keep exchanging glances once in a while. Don't do this too much or it can be taken the wrong way. What you are doing is warming up both of you.
3. When you feel ready, come up. Some foreigners feel uncomfortable because they may not speak great English. Don't laugh. Accept their accent and grammatical errors as part of their charm.
4. Introduce yourself and chat. People are the same inside, no matter where they come from. Give a genuine compliment. Everyone likes compliments. You might get one in return!
5. Eventually suggest going out for coffee, a study date or a tour of the city.
6. Read up on the place and culture of your soon-to-be friend. Ask your foreigner questions about their background. Everyone wants to talk about the place where they come from.
7. Help your friend get accustomed to a new way of life. Be supportive.
8. Let your friendship blossom. Don't force it. And remember... a little variety never hurt anyone.

Tips & Warnings

• Don't ever be judgmental about the ways that seem strange to you. You might understand better, later.