Christmas or other thank-you notes or writing paper
pencils or pens
erasers for pencil or pen
optional photo of child with the gift
envelope and stamp
Step1
Have your child sit in a comfortable chair and write the proper salutation such as "Dear Grandmother,".
Step2
Next, have your child write the body of the letter. Some children write easily. If not, tell them that it is fine to simply write "Thank you for the (name) of gift" as a first sentence.
Step3
Encourage the child to write one or two more short sentences. You may need to offer options, such as focusing on the special characteristics of a toy or a special color of a sweater or putting in something about how much the recipient is looking forward to using it or how much fun it has been to play with a specific toy already.
Step4
Make sure the letter is finished in a proper way. Some possibilities include "Thanks again for your lovely gift" or simple "Appreciatively,". This is followed by the writer's signature.
Step5
Put the note in the sized envelope and enclose a photo of the child with the gift (if you are including one). While this is optional, it is a nice touch. Then lick the envelope, seal and address it. You can mail it for your child.
Tips & Warnings
Remind your child that it is not okay to say a gift was disliked. Instead, he or she could tactfully note how kind it was for a friend or relative to think of him or her.
A handwritten or printed letter is important. Do not use form letters. Even if a child writes with crooked letters or imperfect spelling, this is part of the charm of a handwritten thank-you note. It adds a personal touch.