Evaluate the person trying to convert you. Is it a friend, a loved one, or a relative stranger? The answer will go a long way towards determining your reaction.
Step2
If it's a stranger, ignore courtesy. Firmly state your lack of interest in conversion. If this is insufficient, look for an exit and take it. Avoid physical contact.
Step3
If it's a friend, hear them out. Perhaps their proximity to you can lend some fresh insight into your life. Afterwards, honestly answer their questions. Try not to alienate them if you decide to refuse their offer. Re-iterate the importance of their friendship.
Step4
A conversion attempt from a loved one is the most difficult of all. Like with a friend, honestly consider their argument, as well as their motivations in approaching you. Keep your opinions to yourself until after they've finished.
Step5
Refusing a loved one in this situation will nearly always result in a re-evaluation of the relationship. Clearly tackle the possible repercussions. Can they be worked through? When dealing with these problems, keep religion out of the conversation as much as possible.
Step6
If you decide to accept their offer, avoid committing to anything straight away. Focus on exploring the religion and developing your own thoughts and opinions about it. Form a course of action.
Comments
how-to-girl said
on 10/7/2008 I agree. Religion and politics just can't be discussed...
AudreyBrown said
on 11/7/2007 Excellent article, this is a common and annoying problem! Thanks for the advice...