How to Push Your Lover's Boundaries with Tantra

Everyone has always heard that you have to work at a relationship, well that is true, but no one said that it has to be hard work or something to stress about. By using the Eight Aspect of Tantra is a great method of communicating with your lover without sounding like you are preaching while pushing the boundaries of your lover.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

1. Aspect one of Tantra is Smarnanam. Smarananam is the allowing of thoughts about sex to develop in the minds of the lovers. In most peoples raising, people were taught to keep sex behind doors and in their mind. Not today, with movies, ads, Internet, and books sex is everywhere.
2. Aspect two of Tantra is Kirtanama. Kirtanama is about creating fantasies.
   Sharing experiences and experiments can communicate to your lover what boundaries that they have already experienced. Take that moment to ask your lovers to experience those pleasures with you now. Sharing experiences will strengthen the bond between you and your lover.
3. Aspect three of Tantra is Keli. Tantra encourages you to honor your relationship.
   Creating new memories with your lover that will bond you by the heart. This is where the friendship of your relationship will help turn your love connect into a unbreakable bond. Be there for each other know matter what has gone wrong or right.
4. Aspect four of Tantra is Prelishenam which is getting to know or connecting with the partner without having sex. Get you game on, no not that game. Games! Play the Truth or Dare but with sexual question that you want to know.
5. Aspect five of Tantra is Guhyabhashanam is all about an intimate conversation that will release any inhabitations. Learn your partners methods of arousal, like the kind of smell he or she likes, the music, the fabrics. Now, set up your bed room atmosphere that caters to both your patterns.
6. Aspect six of Tantra is Samkalpa which is about touch. In Tantra there is way to explore each others bodies to communicate in silence and in smiles. Sit across from each other in an Indian style. Now, start at the face and each follow the leader, if you touch his face then he touches yours in the same manner. You keep the trail down the body.
7. Aspect seven of Tantra is Adhyavasayaman. This aspect is two types of foreplay, mental and physical. The mental foreplay is images that you can provide for your partner that will aid in his pleasure level, where we all know the physical foreplay. The mental foreplay can be achieved by the clothing you wear, the music you select, the scent, and anything that can change this night from the night before.
8. Aspect eight of Tantra is Kriyanishpatti. Yes, the final act is intercourse. Then each of you pick two things that you want your partner to perform that night from the Truth and Dare game and enjoy the night.