Things You'll Need:
- pen and paper
- open mind
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Step 1
Having a pen and paper with you will allow you to take notes about what the teacher said. I don't know how many times I have forgotten what we discussed as soon as I got home. Write down important information and any suggestions the teacher may offer.
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Step 2
You need to have an open mind when you attend these conferences. These teachers spend hours a day with your child. Understand that perceptions are different, but by working together, the parents and teachers can assist each other to teach the child. Don't automatically assume your kid is horrible if the teacher mentions a problem, but don't assume your child is innocent either.
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Step 3
Ask how you can help. If your child needs extra help in an area, ask what you can be doing to get him to the level he needs to be. If you child is advanced, as how you can help keep her challenged so she will not become bored during class.
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Step 4
Thank the teacher for taking the time to talk with you. Teachers work hard for little money. Gratitude from parents makes it easier to continue the difficult task of teacher a large number of kids. It can't be easy to teach 30 kids with varying skill levels. Whether you agree with the teacher on everything you discussed or not, remember to thank her for teaching your child.
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Step 5
If appropriate, talk with your child about what you and the teacher discussed. Encourage your child to continue doing well and praise her for appropriate behavior . Also encourage your child to do better in weaker areas. This may require extra help from you, so make sure your child knows he can count on you to help.
