How to Participate During Parent Teacher Conferences

By AmyU

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At least once or twice a year, schools have parent teacher conferences. These conferences are designed to allow the teacher to address issues, praise hardwork and suggest ideas with the parents. Here are a few steps that will assist you when you attend these conferences, so you get the most from them.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

  • pen and paper
  • open mind

Step1
Having a pen and paper with you will allow you to take notes about what the teacher said. I don't know how many times I have forgotten what we discussed as soon as I got home. Write down important information and any suggestions the teacher may offer.
Step2
You need to have an open mind when you attend these conferences. These teachers spend hours a day with your child. Understand that perceptions are different, but by working together, the parents and teachers can assist each other to teach the child. Don't automatically assume your kid is horrible if the teacher mentions a problem, but don't assume your child is innocent either.
Step3
Ask how you can help. If your child needs extra help in an area, ask what you can be doing to get him to the level he needs to be. If you child is advanced, as how you can help keep her challenged so she will not become bored during class.
Step4
Thank the teacher for taking the time to talk with you. Teachers work hard for little money. Gratitude from parents makes it easier to continue the difficult task of teacher a large number of kids. It can't be easy to teach 30 kids with varying skill levels. Whether you agree with the teacher on everything you discussed or not, remember to thank her for teaching your child.
Step5
If appropriate, talk with your child about what you and the teacher discussed. Encourage your child to continue doing well and praise her for appropriate behavior . Also encourage your child to do better in weaker areas. This may require extra help from you, so make sure your child knows he can count on you to help.

Tips & Warnings

  • Encouragement brings greater results than threats, so if there is an issue discuss openly and find a positive solution.
  • Being late to your appointment sets other parents back. Be courteous and arrive on time.

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