Difficulty: Moderately Challenging
Step1
Make up your mind to be a friend no matter how flaky your friend is treating you.
Step2
Be patient and long-suffering with your friend. She may be under a lot of stress and has not shared it with you.
Step3
Talk to your friend with tenderness and care. It is very important to keep the communication lines open.
Step4
Cherish your friendship sincerely. Understand that no friendship is perfect. There will be challenging times when your friendship is tested. This is the only way you will know if your friendship is really a true one.
Step5
Maintain a listening ear even though your friend may be in a selfish mode. If your friend is also a true friend to you, she will eventually realize that your friendship is special to her and that you also deserve to be honored as you have honored her.
Step6
Give your friend space when he needs it.
Comments
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MidniteWriter said
on 12/4/2007 The last point is a good one. I would always like to "part as friends" and I would suggest if you are continually being hurt it's time to seek a peaceful end.
Good article!