Things You'll Need:
- Zen Garden
- Patience!
- good organizational skills
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Step 1
First and foremost.. RELAX. This is not your wedding, nor does the success of this day rest solely on your shoulders. Remind yourself why you're there: You love the bride, and are happy that she's getting married. Realize that she is *stressed*, and will probably not realize that she's being evil until sometime during her honeymoon.
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Step 2
Be organized. If you have all your ducks in a row, you're not going to give the bride much room to snarl. Let what she says to others or about others in your hearing roll off your back. Don't take it personally, and you'll be able to deal with much more than you though. Having all the answers you possibly can makes your life (on the big day) and your friend's much easier!
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Step 3
Cheap and relaxing, they can sometimes be the perfect fix.Invest in a cheap relaxation technique like a zen garden. They're inexpensive and they work! Spend a few minutes each day leading up to the wedding using your garden to relax and gather your thoughts.
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Step 4
On the big day, remember that no matter what she's done, it is her big day. Do your best to support her, and remember, You can do anything for a few hours!
