Things You'll Need:
- Attractive recruitment poster
- Initiative
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Step 1
Talk to other single parents you know who might be interested in starting a support group with you. Even two or three people have enough new ideas and energy to get something launched.
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Step 2
Put notices at the supermarket, local churches and synagogues, train stations, toy stores, natural food stores and the pediatrician’s office inviting single parents to contact you.
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Step 3
Set up a free conference call for your initial meeting so no one has to get child care. Follow the directions from the conference call company to give everyone the phone number, code and time.
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Step 4
Decide what issues are of most concern. Some examples are dealing with children’s anger, handling a difficult non-custodial spouse, financial problems, child care, and finding time for yourself.
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Step 5
Exchange information about each member’s areas of knowledge, experience, skill and contacts. Make a list of the resources within the group.
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Step 6
Decide how formal you want the group to be. It could range from a regular free conference call to an email listserv to regular meetings at a set location. Figure out the tasks that need to be done to keep the group going.
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Step 7
The best option for regular gatherings is someone’s home. Local churches or synagogues may also have meeting space. It should be private so you can share personal information.
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Step 8
Once the group has started, check in regularly with the members to find out if the group is responding to their concerns.
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Step 9
At holiday times, plan a fun activity for the members and their children to help cement the group. After a year, plan an adult gathering to celebrate your achievement.
