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How to Start a Parent Support Group

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By Sandra Choukroun
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Being a parent is one of the hardest things that many adults do in their lives, but it is also incredibly rewarding. Isolation makes it harder! A parent support group can make a huge difference for families. When parents are calm, confident and in control, children benefit. Groups offer emotional support and resources, plus the opportunity to be with others facing similar difficulties.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • Someone’s home for the initial meeting; refreshments
  • Sign-in sheet
  • Copies of meeting agenda
  1. Step 1

    Find parents in the community who might be interested in a parent support group. Ask at your child’s school, at religious institutions, local public libraries, medical facilities, summer camps and community bulletin boards. Word of mouth is also a good source.

  2. Step 2

    Invite potential members to a “Get to Know You” meeting without children. A home is the best place to hold it since people are more comfortable in that setting.

  3. Step 3

    After refreshments and introductions, tell the group why you, as the convener, think a parent support group would be helpful. Give each person a few moments to share interests and concerns. Typical concerns include positive communication, setting boundaries, coping strategies, living without guilt, getting information about health problems and advocacy. Find out what situations the parents have in common. Ask them to share the areas where they need help and where they can contribute effective strategies for problem-solving.

  4. Step 4

    Discuss how the group will function, including members’ roles. Possible roles could be getting information and reporting to the group, finding speakers, creating a newsletter, responding to crisis calls and sending meeting notices. Ask members to choose roles based on their areas of personal strength, expertise or greatest interest.

  5. Step 5

    Decide on the ground rules for the group such as confidentiality, meeting structure, attendance requirements, fees for expenses, and leadership.

  6. Step 6

    Find out which participants want to be group members. Decide on the date, time, topic and assignments for the first official meeting.

  7. Step 7

    Send a written note or email to everyone who came to the “Get to Know You” meeting to thank them for attending.

Tips & Warnings
  • Make sure members understand and are comfortable with the time commitment that’s needed for the group to succeed.
  • Most parent groups deal with one specific issue. Limiting the focus saves time.
  • Follow up with members after a few weeks to find out if their needs are being met.
  • Be very clear about any confidentiality issues from the beginning.

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