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Step 1
Learn the tricks of the trade. Call a dominatrix dungeon to take lessons from a professional dominatrix to learn how to be mean to your man.
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Step 2
Collect your equipment, such as whips, paddles, shackles, blindfolds, gags and other supplies and equipment to make your man submissive to your commands. Your local sex shop should carry many of these items as well as toys you could incorporate into your dominatrix session.
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Step 3
Dress like a dominatrix by wearing a leather bustier, garter belt, stockings, stilettos, wigs, black latex outfit and lots of makeup. Find lingerie online. Many lingerie shops like Victoria's Secret also offer dominatrix-like lingerie.
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Step 4
Create a "dungeon" for your sexual escapades. This doesn't have to be a real dungeon like Dr. Frankenstein has; it could be a temporary set up in your bedroom. Dim the lights, place your equipment and supplies within easy reach and dress the part.
Comments
powerleg5 said
on 7/7/2009 LCM speaks the truth about the dominatrix making them dance to her tune. It's all about pleasing her and whatever it takes to do that will be expected and better be completed.
LCM323444 said
on 11/17/2008 You wrote that a dominatrix "dominates her male partner with bondage and caters to his sadomasochistic (S/M) fetishes." But, I don't think that a true dominatrix "caters" to her partner's anything. A true dominatrix makes her partner dance to HER tune.
Scooter714 said
on 9/19/2008 I'd say if a guy wanted to be dominated to start out slowly, maybe first by be dominated by a phone sex dominatrix, you can learn quite a bit from them. and see if you like it.. then get into the physical part later..i have used a few phone girls for years and i love it.. the latest girl is Tracy. she did this a few years ago, stopped and then got back into it. you can call and ask her about it from her site callahottie(.)com she can steer you in the right direction. though it does cost some money.. but you get what you pay for.. well good luck to all
Scooter714 said
on 9/19/2008 I'd say if you were a guy who wanted to be dominated by a woman, first start out doing it by phone, there are many phone sex dominatrix ... i have been talking to this girl Tracy for years. she is the best i have ever had. though i have only tried out 3 girls .. but she is amazing.. callahottie(.)com is her site..she stopped for a while but is back in business.. can't hurt to try....
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