How to Get a Male Partner to Orgasm

Sexual satisfaction can be accomplished in many ways, which is one of the reasons why it's so fantastic. Whether you are looking to help solve a problem or just want to enhance the experience for your male partner, you've found your way to a guide describing help to get a male partner to orgasm. Get ready to add more tools to your bedroom toolbox and watch him explode with delight.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Tell your partner that it's all about him. Often men get enjoyment making their partner orgasm but in effect they deprive themselves of feeling the sensuousness of the experience. Take the pressure off and take control of the night. Allow him to focus solely on how it feels for him and all of the touches and warmth without concentrating on you or anything else.
2. Extend the foreplay to help him out. The rule here is harder is definitely stronger. The longer foreplay goes on, more blood accumulates in the penis making it harder and the more excited he gets for the finale. When the release of orgasm finally happens, it's like bursting an overfilled balloon, allowing him to experience a strong orgasm both mentally and physically.
3. Take control of the pace. Men will naturally want to come at the first urge, but by setting the pace, you can prolong the sex. Try it on top, or in any position where the male is unable to thrust. This puts him at your mercy and you determine the speed. If you feel him beginning to rev into high gear, slow down and do some sensual rubbing elsewhere to help him slow it down. Squeeze the base of his penis with your thumb on one side and two fingers on the other side to take the erection down a few notches, so with practice you can help him last longer if desired.
4. Feel the friction. No surprise that the most sensitive part of a man is his penis, so the more friction there the better. It's personal preference, but experiment with hand jobs, blow jobs and different positions. Entry from behind allows for friction and depth. With a woman on top men can visually see the friction along with feeling it and feeling that squeeze while inside of the woman send many men over the top. Women can strengthen this muscle by practicing Kegel exercises.
5. Rub-a-dub-dub. Massage his perineum, which is the super soft area between his penis and anus. Some men love to have their testicles gently stroked, others like their nipples stimulated. Bring toys into the bedroom. Depending on your style you can start small or go for the gusto, but bringing them in as a surprise in a sensual and an "I can't wait to see how this makes you feel" way will make him feel excited and less threatened.
6. Experiment and ask for feedback on what he likes. Look at his face while you try something new and don't be afraid to go outside of either of your comfort zones to reach an orgasm. You just might find a surprise for both of you at the end of the night.