How to Roleplay During Phone Sex

Phone sex serves various purposes and is conducted on an amateur or professional level. It's hard to tell how many lovers engage in phone sex for casual fun, but Family Safe Media estimates professional phone sex generates $4.5 billion in revenue every year. Whether for kicks or pay, the key to the popularity of this activity lays in the participants' ability to creatively roleplay during phone sex sessions.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Start with a straight or "girlfriend" scenario if you're new to phone sex, whether it's an amateur or professional on the other end of the phone. There's nothing kinky here; the call will take on qualities of regular sex between two regular people. Unlike other types of roleplaying, participants may proclaim their love for one another during these sessions. One of the more common scenes in this category involves female to male oral sex.

2. Work into a three-way situation if you're so inclined. This roleplay involves one party acting as a third-and participating-party who can be made male or female, depending on your preference. Many of these roleplays involve two women together, with the man mostly pleasuring himself while watching.

3. Amp things up a bit with a dominatrix/submissive (dom/sub) roleplay. This is where one of you is the dom, the one who ties up the more submissive participant, gags them, drips hot candle wax on various body parts and has their way with them-well, maybe, if the sub has been a good little sub. A favorite roleplay in this category is a beautiful, powerful female boss making the submissive male do her bidding or else face punishment.

4. Let loose with the common, but oh so fun, "naughty someone" roleplay. It can be a naughty girl, boy, student, nurse, neighbor, mom of friend, auntie, teacher-the list goes on. This roleplay usually has light content, there's no dom/sub play and it rarely turns kinky.

5. Indulge your deep, hidden desires and do some fetish roleplay. This can highlight anything kinky in which you have an interest or obsession, such as feet, sneezing, large female body parts, such as breasts, certain positions, certain locations or certain clothing such as rubber suits.

6. Understand that while just pretend, roleplaying during phone sex can take on a life of its own. Be creative. Set the stage, be descriptive and work on your vocalizations, such as moaning. Sometimes roleplaying is easier over the phone than in person, particularly for people with more reserved natures.

Tips & Warnings

• If it's you and a friend engaging in phone sex roleplay, you have a lot of flexibility. If it's you and a phone service, know there are topics that are considered off limits and maybe illegal in certain jurisdictions to even discuss.

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on 10/25/2008 [e-mail]