How to Initiate IM Sex

If you've got the hots for the person on the receiving end of your IM session and want to initiate a sex chat, there are a number of strategies you can use to steer the conversation in that direction. For the best chances of engaging another person in an IM sex chat, a good approach is to lead into the topic gradually rather than just dropping it right onto the table.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

1. Ease into things. Jumping right into sex talk isn't generally the most successful approach, even if you've had IM sex with the person before. Ask how they're doing, how their day was and make an effort to get to know at least a little bit about the non-sexual aspects of their life before you head into sexy territory.

2. Guide the conversation towards dating and romance rather than straight into sex when you're ready to make your move. For example, if you've met someone in a chat room and want to initiate an IM sex session with them, you can ask about their romantic history and whether they're seeing anyone right now, just to steer the chat into mating territory.

3. Ask sex-related questions without diving headlong into IM sex, if the person is responsive to your queries about their romantic or dating life. Finding out when they last had sex or how much sexual experience they have is a good way to get the topic on their mind without going too far too fast.

4. Take control of the situation. Asking an innocent but charged question like "What are you wearing right now?" can really open the door to take things further.

5. Build on the other person's responses by continuing to go deeper and deeper into sexy territory while maintaining a fun, light tone to the conversation. Once you've planted the sex seed in the other person's mind, they'll respond in kind if they're into the idea of having an IM sex session with you.

6. Move towards your goal by asking questions and making statement that probe deeper into the other person's sexuality. If you show a genuine interest in finding out what turns your partner on, she'll be more likely to engage you than if you simply hammer away at whatever it is you're looking for, without regard to the two-person dialogue.

Tips & Warnings

• A touch of ambiguity in your opening moves is very helpful. This way, you can leave the ball in the other person's court and, essentially, let them be the one to initiate the actual IM sex chat.
• Proceed with caution. There's always a chance that the other person isn't into the idea of IM sex, and pushing for it just might weird them out enough to ruin your relationship.

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